EVERYBODY LOVES HATERS

             As children most of us had a habit of starting sentences with the term "You just mad cause..." when we felt someone was jealous or envious of something we had gained or accomplished. We assumed that whatever we'd done or acquired was actually of some value to someone other than us and our illusions of grandeur became badges of honor which we paraded proudly at each and every opportunity. Oh what foolish little beings we were. The funny thing is most of us never outgrew this childhood habit. What we've done instead is allowed those childish fantasies to evolve into adult insecurities and identified anyone that might be willing to point out and address them as (HATERS). As we all know EVERYBODY LOVES HATERS... So much so even, that in a lot of cases we invent and imagine them in order to give anyone within earshot the notion that we are actually doing better than we actually are.. Which if you ask me dosen' t make us important, but a tad-bit crazy. Wouldn't you agree?

           It has somehow become extremely fashionable to be hated or "hated on" as much as possible. It's the hottest topic in music, the most frequently used statement on t-shirts and let's not even get on the manner in which it is abused all over social networking sites. Yes the hater phenomenon is currently in full swing, Statement of choice... "If they HATIN' I must be doin something right.". Now do me and yourself a favor. Think back on every person you've heard utter those words. Exactly how much were they actually doing right when they said it? Yep... You guessed right...  NOT A MUUAHFUKKIN BIT OF SHIT!!! But let them tell it, they're sittin' on top of the world, In actuality they're often expressing self-guilt based on the fact that their poor life choices have placed them in situations to wish for more in a materialistic, emotional, or intellectual sense. So the self-proclaimed "Hating" usually is just another way of admitting the inability to ignore another persons views where they are concerned.

           See... Opinions make the world go round. Like it or not, everything we do, from something as small as lighting a cigarette to something as grand as burning down a house is almost always guaranteed to generate them. The problem is, usually they're negative. Especially in cases where the holders of such opinions have no reason to show tact or regard for our feelings. Like everyone else in the world, they're just stating their views. But does that really warrant the title of "Hater"?? And if so wouldn't that make you and i "Haters" as well? Seeing as how we've all shown some degree of dislike for some person or whatever aspects of their lives that they've managed to give us enough access to actually formulate an opinion on? It's just that....An Opinion... It's life, Get the fukk over it & Get the fukk on with it...Of course  that would be fae too easy.  So what we do instead, is take a few negative thoughts or words, add a shitload more, and make ourselves the subject of an imaginary "Hater" parade. What we fail to realize through all the illusory festivities, is the fact that the very people that we've arranged such an event for shake their heads in disgust at the concept of someone actually believing they have a larger "Hater Crowd" than they themselves possess. It's a vicious frivolous cycle, yet its life for the majority of us.

            At the end of the day. There are jealous, envious, and plain miserable people not only in the world, but in our closet circles. And yes, their opinion of us hold the most venom. However, a lot of those opinions tend to be more fact than fiction. If you "step out" on the weekends with an unwashed ass, a weave that resembles lace-front raccoon hat (tail included) and an outfit that looks like a caltrans uniform and someone reminds you of the hot-mess you look. IT'S PROBABLY NOT HATE! If you and your brother switch once-a-week fits and jewelry to go to the same club and someone notices. IT'S PROBABLY NOT HATE! If you spend 30 days worth of welfare in a club in one night and your PG&E goes off and someone points out your trife habits. IT'S PROBABLY NOT HATE! If your nose is turned up at everyone breathing the instant your eyebrows get arched and your nails get done and someone addresses your stinking ass attitude. IT'S PROBABLY NOT HATE! If you constantly put the planet in you personal business regarding all the foul shit your mate does on a regular and people question you motives for staying with such an individual. IT'S PROBABLY NOT HATE!!!! It's just people stating the obvious. Don't do the fool... Just do better...

             After all.... There arr millionaires flashing across out T.V screens with success and riches that very very few of us wil ever possess. We are constantly reminded that there are houses we'll never own, cars we'll never buy, places we'll never go, and things we'll never do in this lifetime by the media. So where's the logic in believing that people actually want your life because you're a few dollars further from being in the poor house than they are. Or because you lead people to believe your life is going better than it actually is. Based on my personal experience, the happiest and most content people have never spoke of "Haters" in my presence or anyone Else's for that matter, due to the fact that their quest to accumulate haters has been sidetracked by their thirst for acquiring a better quality of life. To me that speaks volumes. So while you wave "HI 2 YOUR HATERS" check for 2 things... 1: That you have something to be hated for... and  2: That the biggest "Hater" isn't actually you. Opinions can be easily forgotten... However self-bred insecurities usually take years of work.....

            AND THAT'S JUST THE WAY I SEE IT.......